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　　教育忘记教给我们女生这个！

　　刚过完热闹的九博登录入口女生节，今天迎来了国际妇女（仙女）节，小V借此祝所有女性教职员工节日快乐。

　　回想女生小时候的成长，我们是不是总是被教育要成为安安静静的淑女：保持微笑，做事安稳，门门拿优？而男生呢，总是一副调皮捣蛋，即使像个小冒险家，老师们也习以为常。这就是今天主讲人所提到的，女生们似乎从小被教育成保守完美，而男生却可以像个勇士一样闯荡。这样的结果即是女生无意识地在追求完美，而忘记放手一搏的勇敢。

　　今日的演讲有些长，小V 先帮大家梳理一下思路，然后大家再仔细看看视频，欢迎大家分享新的体悟！

　　演讲大致可以分为三个部分：

引出话题

分享观点

强调观点

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　　引出话题

　　忠实的V粉们肯定发现，很多优秀的演讲人都喜欢讲故事吸引人的注意力，这篇也不例外。这篇女性演讲人分享自己竞选美国议员的故事。当时参加竞选引起了轩然大波，竞选失败后媒体们纷纷批评演讲人浪费财务做无谓的尝试。但是，正是这件事情，让演讲人意识到，女孩们勇敢的时候太少了！她今天之所以站在这个台上，是因为她33岁才第一次勇敢地做了一件自己想做而不在乎结果是否完美的事情。我们的教育无形中让女孩追求完美，规避风险。她幽默地说，不担心财政赤字，担心勇敢赤字，希望更多女孩能够学会勇敢。

Now, before you get the wrong idea, this is not a talk about the importance of failure. Nor is it about leaning in. I tell you the story of how I ran for Congress because I was 33 years old and it was the first time in my entire life that I had done something that was truly brave, where I didn't worry about being perfect.

And I'm not alone:九博官方入口 so many women I talk to tell me that they gravitate towards careers and professions that they know they're going to be great in, that they know they're going to be perfect in, and it's no wonder why. Most girls are taught to avoid risk and failure. We're taught to smile pretty, play it safe, get all A's. Boys, on the other hand, are taught to play rough, swing high, crawl to the top of the monkey bars and then just jump off headfirst. And by the time they're adults, whether they're negotiating a raise or even asking someone out on a date, they're habituated to take risk after risk. They're rewarded for it. It's often said in Silicon Valley, no one even takes you seriously unless you've had two failed start-ups. In other words, we're raising our girls to be perfect, and we're raising our boys to be brave.

Some people worry about our federal deficit, but I, I worry about ourbravery deficit.Our economy, our society, we're just losing out because we're not raising our girls to be brave. The bravery deficit is why women are underrepresented in STEM, in C-suites, in boardrooms, in Congress, and pretty much everywhere you look.

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　　分享观点

　　演讲人的观点很明确，即女孩们要学会勇敢，不要因为追求完美而放弃。具体表现在，为了完美可能放弃高难度任务或是为了完美放弃任何尝试，对错误总是归因于自身的能力问题，甚至会怀疑自己。这一部分演讲人给出了很多证明。小V这里分析一个印象最深的例子，即该演讲人帮助女生学习电脑编程时发生的故事。

　　电脑编程是精细的工作，一点错误便会导致前功尽弃。同时呢，开发编程需要不断的试错，这种“不完美”的行为正是女孩们的弱点啊。

So in 2012, I started a company to teach girls to code, and what I found is that by teaching them to code I had socialized them to be brave. Coding, it's an endless process of trial and error, of trying to get the right command in the right place, with sometimes just a semicolon making the difference between success and failure. Code breaks and then it falls apart, and it often takes many, many tries until that magical moment when what you're trying to build comes to life. It requires perseverance. It requires imperfection.

　　果然，女孩们很害怕出错，觉得自己不会编程。空白的电脑屏幕上，其实已经经历过了不断地删改，女孩们宁愿交上空白，也不愿意交上可能有错误的编程代码。

We immediately see in our program our girls' fear of not getting it right, of not being perfect. Every teacher who teaches girls to code tells me the same story. During the first week, when the girls are learning how to code, a student will call her over and she'll say, "I don't know what code to write." The teacher will look at her screen, and she'll see a blank text editor. If she didn't know any better, she'd think that her student spent the past 20 minutes just staring at the screen. But if she presses undo a few times, she'll see that her student wrote code and then deleted it.She tried, she came close, but she didn't get it exactly right. Instead of showing the progress that she made, she'd rather show nothing at all. Perfection or bust.

　　其实女孩们很会编程，但是我们要教会她们的其实不仅仅是怎么编程。（而是怎么勇敢，接受不完美）

It turns out that our girls are really good at coding, but it's not enough just to teach them to code. My friend Lev Brie, who is a professor at the University of Columbia and teaches intro to Java tells me about his office hours with computer science students. When the guys are strugglingwith an assignment, they'll come in and they'll say, "Professor, there's something wrong with my code." The girlswill come in and say, "Professor, there's something wrong with me." We have to begin to undo the socialization of perfection, but we've got to combine it with building a sisterhood that lets girls know that they are not alone. Because trying harder is not going to fix a broken system.

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　　强调观点

　　这里主要是讲出了当女孩学会勇敢之后的好处。她们可以勇敢创新，为社会增加新动力！

For the American economy, for any economy to grow, to truly innovate, we cannot leave behind half our population. We have to socialize our girls to be comfortable with imperfection, and we've got to do it now. We cannot wait for them to learn how to be brave like I did when I was 33 years old. We have to teach them to be brave in schools and early in their careers, when it has the most potential to impact their lives and the lives of others, and we have to show them that they will be loved and accepted not for being perfect but for being courageous.And so I need each of you to tell every young woman you know — your sister, your niece, your employee, your colleague — to be comfortable with imperfection, because when we teach girls to be imperfect, and we help them leverage it, we will build a movement of young women who are brave and who will build a better world for themselves and for each and every one of us.

　　演讲最后，演讲人分享了她现在对女孩们的帮助状况，那些数字令人感动。希望V粉中的各位妹子们，也要学会勇敢。V粉中的各位汉子们，可以把这个转给身边的妹子们。让我们一起，让每个人的生活变得更加美好，从自己变得勇敢而不是追求完美开始！

文稿：吴亚丽

审稿：黄亦晨 杨畅

排版：杨涛

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